Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don’t question themselves. They don’t ask themselves if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else.

-Darlene Ouimet  (via foxfreudandink)

Lol yep, this is my ex right here

(via happyhealthy-ashley)

Oh but they’ll SAY the problem is them. But it’s just another tactic. If they can sit there and cry and say “It’s all me, I’m the worst person in the world, clearly you hate me” they put you in the position of needing to comfort them and assure them that they’re loved. Then whatever anger you had with something they did is forced away due to the sympathy they’ve now made you replace it with.

(via ladyshinga)

micdotcom:

An NAACP office was bombed yesterday — so why did it take so long for anyone to care?

The Colorado Springs offices of the NAACP were attacked Tuesday morning in what’s almost certainly an attempt to inflict fear and terror upon black Americans and those who support them. 

According to reports, an improvised explosive device was detonated on the side of the NAACP’s building, and the FBI confirmed that it was a deliberate attack. Officials are seeking a “person of interest,” described as a balding, white male in his 40s driving an older-model pick-up truck. A container of gasoline was left near the bomb, apparently with the intent to cause an even bigger explosion, but that part of the plot failed. The result was minor damage and no casualties.

In the current context of national protests about police brutality and racial justice, the effect of such an attack can’t be understated. But only after #NAACPBombing became a worldwide trending topic on Twitter did the incident start to become a national news story late Tuesday night.

violentsuicides:

the-feminist-fangirl:

I care about the problems of men. I care that the patriarchy tells men that they have to be stoic beasts incapable of emotion. I care that the patriarchy tells men that they are lust-filled monsters incapable of controlling their own libidos. I care that the patriarchy tells men that they cannot be raped or assaulted because the patriarchy believes women are too weak and inferior to be dangerous.

Feminists did not do this to you, other men did.

THIS

kurt-banged-her:

shugarskull:

joyeuse-noelle:

New Final Fantasy screenshots show the male protagonist in revealing, skin-tight armor; male gamers freak out.

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looks pretty cool tbh

I care about what the guy is wearing about as much as any other character, which is… not at all. A guy wearing skimpy clothes isn’t a turn-on for me personally, but if I can take and like it done with female characters, then there’s no reason it can’t be done with men too.