Controllers, abusers and manipulative people don’t question themselves. They don’t ask themselves if the problem is them. They always say the problem is someone else.
-Darlene Ouimet (via foxfreudandink)
Lol yep, this is my ex right here
(via happyhealthy-ashley)
Oh but they’ll SAY the problem is them. But it’s just another tactic. If they can sit there and cry and say “It’s all me, I’m the worst person in the world, clearly you hate me” they put you in the position of needing to comfort them and assure them that they’re loved. Then whatever anger you had with something they did is forced away due to the sympathy they’ve now made you replace it with.
(via ladyshinga)





