nihil-descent:

[Image: A Reddit comment by corathus59.

This is almost fifty years ago: I added psych as a major so I could access the books on homosexuality in our university library. They were locked in the back and you had to go through the librarian to get them. If you were not a psych major the Dean of Students would interrogate you as to why you wanted to read such deleterious material.

Seeing the newspaper that one of my professors and his friends had been arrested at his own house, having a barbecue in the backyard, for “associating with a known homosexual”. Believe me, these things twist you, and make you think twice when invited to a party at someone’s house.

Having a handsome young stranger make eyes at you at the all night diner as you study for finals, and wondering if he is one of the detectives assigned to entrapping gays. Going through the teeter totter emotions of wondering if he might be the love you are looking for, or is he the trap that will flush your whole life down the toilet.

Coming to barracks at the end of the day in the Air Force, and watching the swarm of OSI and Security Police escorting a friend out under arrest for having gone to a gay bar. Wondering if he would name you, because that was the only way you could stay out of jail – by naming at least five other gays.

All of the above were common experiences for many gays in America, not that long ago. Those of us who went through this are still among you. Don’t take for granted the new freedoms you have. Get out and vote this election no matter what. The Republicans mean to send us back to all this.]

girlgastly:

male socialization is refusing to admit you’re losing an argument even when every one of your ‘points’ is being thoroughly shut down, female socialization is recognizing you’re wrong about minor things during the argument but knowing that if you verbally concede any point the man will take that as ‘confirmation’ of his overall Rightness. men walk away from debates feeling good about their performance despite how the debate actually went, women walk away feeling like it would have been more productive to talk to a tree

dwconversations:

I think this new series, The Doctor actually mentioned the underlying risk for travelling with her instead of asking people to join her straight – which is nice because that’s like consent. 

tousmescheries:

*inhale*

So…I am now 100% aggressively sending telepathic waves to Chibnall to now make Yaz and Thirteen announce their feelings for each other by the end of the series…

Also Chibs… petition for Ryan’s shadow puppeteer mastery to be the main story arc for next series…